sex?

I've never actually had sex with anyone who i've actually liked, it sounds like iv had allot of one night stand sex but i havnt. i mean i've had my fair share of sex but not a whoreish amount. Anyway I was having a conversation with one of my friends about sex and i realized this. I dont think i like this fact about myself. I mean ive recently turned 20 and iv never had a boyfriend and iv had sex with the same person more then once, but there was no contact or human interaction between us, it was just sex a few times. I could tell myself that i just havnt met anyone i like yet or i could be one of those people who will never have a significant other and be alone for the rest of their lives. i prefer the first.